During lunch today I stumbled across the article Say No To The Dress by Joanna Hershon. The title is deceiving; the article has nothing to do with the popular television show Say Yes To The Dress or about shooting down the many, many opinions you receive during the wedding planning process, especially when trying to find a wedding gown. Rather, she writes how much your life can change over the course of an engagement, and how it makes you look at your wedding in a new light, and subsequently your dress. If you have a few extra minutes, I recommend it.

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/03/28/say-no-to-the-dress/?hp